Seniors’ Day
Thank God that our church was able to hold Seniors’ Day once again on August 23! And thank God for giving me the opportunity to serve in this event. Let me interview one of the organisers, Betty, and hear the insider’s story!
Q: The last “Seniors’ Day” was held in 2019, which was six years ago. Why did you decide to organize it again this year?
A: In the early years of COVID, due to the uncertainties of the pandemic, we refrained from holding Seniors’ Day. When we resumed the Cantonese Bible study group for the elderly in 2023, we realized that half of the attendees who used to be regulars could no longer come to church gatherings for various reasons. I saw the need to seize the time to let our elderly brothers and sisters enjoy this annual event that belongs to them. Thank God that over the past two years, I’ve built relationships with young members in our congregation through the Workers’ Fellowship. They had long heard about the Seniors’ Day, a tradition which we had kept for eleven years. When I formally invited them in May this year to serve on Seniors’ Day, they all agreed readily. And so, the story began.
Q: What difficulties did you encounter during the preparation process? How did the Lord lead the committee to overcome them?
A: One of the biggest difficulties we faced was that we hadn’t held this event for five years. Many of the details had faded from memory, and on top of that, two of our talented chefs had since left the church. Most of those willing to serve this year were new, and I was a bit apprehensive at the beginning. Thank God for giving me strength and courage to first adjust my own mindset, and then help my coworkers face challenges positively.
Q: After several days of heavy rain, the weather cleared up on Seniors’ Day. How did you feel about that?
A: It was a great opportunity to exercise our faith in God. For two weeks before Seniors’ Day, we kept checking the weather forecast, and were told to expect torrential rain on the day. In fact, the rain was still pouring non-stop the night before. Thankfully, at our first committee meeting in early July, I had already shared with brothers and sisters that Seniors’ Day is God's ministry—not mine or anyone else’s. Since it is God’s work, He will take full responsibility, including the weather, which is beyond our control. As God’s servants, we just need to prepare faithfully. Even if it poured on the day and only half the elderly showed up, or there were problems with the program or food, surely God’s good purpose would prevail. When we woke up to a blue sky on the day, we could only give thanks to God and marvel at His great power.
Q: How was the gathering that day? What was the atmosphere like? Did the elderly enjoy it?
A: Most of the elderly gave positive feedback. They especially appreciated the respect and courtesy shown by the younger members. They really liked the thoughtfully-prepared food, the nice decorations, and the well-arranged program.
Q: Do you think Seniors’ Day achieved its intended goals?
A: The main goal of Seniors’ Day is to express our gratitude to the elderly who have contributed to the society, their families, and the church over the years. Based on the positive responses received, it seems that this goal was achieved.
Q: Did you see God at work during Seniors’ Day?
A: Certainly, and thank God for His guidance throughout. He gave us capable chefs, brothers who looked after the parking lot, and others who led singspiration, organised games and performance, prepared decorations, ushered, looked after IT, and purchased gifts online. Most importantly, the Lord united us with one heart and purpose in giving warm hospitality and respect to our elderly.
Q: From the start of the preparation process to the event itself and the debriefing meeting, what reflections and feelings do you have?
A: Serving God is an incredible blessing. I’m especially thankful because even though there were moments of discouragement and setbacks along the way, God reminded me - “Why are you so worried and anxious? This is My ministry. I will take full responsibility.” That gave me indescribable peace in my heart.
Q: Do you have anything you’d like to say to the brothers and sisters who served in the event?
A: Thank you, brothers and sisters, for serving alongside me in unity and for your patience and acceptance. Looking forward to serving together again next year!
Q: Do you have anything you’d like to say to the elderly?
A: Thank you for letting us serve you. Pray that Seniors’ Day is just the start of ongoing opportunities for brothers and sisters of different ages and languages to share life and faith together.
長者日
感謝神讓我們教會在剛過去的8月23日再次舉辦長者日!亦感謝神讓我可以在當中服事。今日,就讓我與發起人之一的Betty做一個文字訪問吧!
問:上一次的「長者日」是在2019年舉辦,距今已經6年。為什麼今年決定再次籌辦呢?
答:Covid幾年因疫情不穩定,一直未敢再舉辦長者日。到2023年重開粵語的長者查經班,發覺班中原有的一半長者因各種原因不能再返教會聚會,感到需要把握時間讓年長的弟兄姊妹享受這一年一度屬於他們的盛事。感謝神讓我在過去兩年多在職青團契中與年青肢體建立了關係,他們一直風聞曾舉辦了十一年的長者日,在今年五月正式邀請他們參加這事奉時,他們都願意參予,故事就這樣開始了。
問:籌備的過程遇到什麼困難?神怎樣帶領籌委會解決呢?
答:最大的困難是已經五年沒籌備這聚會,很多細節已忘記了,而且兩位非常能幹的大廚也離開了教會,今年願意一起事奉的多半是新人,心中有點膽怯。感謝神賜我剛強壯膽,先處理好自己的心態,再幫助同工正面的處理問題。
問:經歷幾天連場暴雨之後,「長者日」那天天氣放晴,你有什麼感受?
答:這是操練自己和同工對神的信心的好機會。長者日前兩星期一直留意天氣預測,被告知那日會下大雨。事實上在長者日前一晚仍是下著大雨,感恩的是在七月初開第一次籌委會時已與弟兄姊妹分享長者日是神的事工,不是我的或他的。既然是神的事工,祂會負一切責任,包括我們不能控制的天氣。作為神的僕人,我們只需盡忠預備好,那即使當日傾盤大雨,只有一半長者能出席,又或節目、食物有出錯,神必有祂的美意,不用我們掛慮。因此當長者日那天出人意外地放晴時,我們除了感恩還是只有感恩,並驚歎神的大能。
問:當日的聚會怎樣?氣氛如何?長者們投入、享受嗎?
答:大部分長者的回應都是正面的。他們尤其欣賞年青肢體對他們的尊重有禮,也甚欣賞弟兄姊妹費心煮的食物、細心的佈置及用心安排的各項節目。
問:你認為「長者日」達到預期的目標嗎?
答:長者日最重要的目的是向多年來為社會、家庭及教會作出貢獻的長者致敬,各方面收到的正面迴響似乎已達到了這個目標。
問:你有在「長者日」中,看到神嗎?
答:感謝神的帶領,是祂為我們預備了得力的大廚、看顧停車場的弟兄、肯花心思負責帶詩、玩遊戲、表演、裝飾、招待、IT、網購禮物的弟兄姊妹,更重要的是給我們合一、願意讓長者得到最尊敬、最溫暖的款待的心。
問:整個籌備過程直到聚會完結和檢討會後,你有什麼反思和感受?
答:能事奉神是極大的福氣,尤其感恩的是中間有沮喪失望或受到挫折的時候,但在每次的挫敗中,神提醒我:「你急甚麼?焦慮甚麼?這是我的事工,我會負一切的責任。」我心中就有說不出的平安!
問:你還有什麼說話想與一同籌劃的弟兄姊妹分享嗎?
答:多謝弟兄姊妹與我同心同工,又願意包容我、接納我,約定你們明年再一起努力。
問:你還有什麼說話想與長者分享嗎?
答:多謝你們願意接受我們的服侍,求神讓長者日成為一個開始,能讓教會不同年紀、不同語言的弟兄姊妹有持續相交的機會。
